Pouncing

For the longest time, I have come behind my wife and thrust my hips up to her but and "pounced" her. Sometime she would resist, and I would lay her over the table and thrust her from the back several times, kinda drive-humping her from the back. She always tried to out do me by pushing her hips back and catching me off guard, but I always retaliated.

Since we have started the game where I am her submissive for the weekends, the roles have changed. Now when I get behind her to massage her back she will thrust her hips back, and I am to stay still while she is in charge with the thrusting. Knowing that I am in the submissive position for the same thing that I once dominated her is exhilirating to me.

In addition sometimes I am the pouncee. She will come behind me and thrust her hips into my but as is she is butt-fucking me. It is somewhat humiliating, which is kinda of a turnon for the submissive side of me.

Her pouncing of me is another one of those things we do on the weekend to keep me horny. Together they all keep motivated to keep the house clean and my wife happy. I love my wife…

Spank Me Baby

My wife had always known my submissive side but had not wanted to get too involved. The one exception was the birthday spanking. She would spank me till I came once a year.

Since we started the games, the spanking has been incorporated a little more into our sex life. About once a month the spanking will come.

At the beginning, it was with a hand or a hanger. The hanger was nice, because it did not make as much noise as the hand – a consideration when you have kids. But the hanger left bruises that did not heal for a month – which sounds cool, but once the weekend is over, I want it be over.

I recently bought a leather whip, which I love. It does not make as much noise as her hand. It stings a lot more than her hand. But it does not leave a mark.








Sample weekend

Again, most weekends she does not spank me but about a month ago..

On Friday, I got a rare text message on my phone. I opened it and it said, "You need a spank". I took that as a sign that she wanted to play our submissive game that weekend.

After a Friday night of horny anticipation, in which I did all the housework as she rested. That night after making her come, she used my leather whip on my ass a little to keep me horny.

On Saturday morning, I heard her getting up and open the drawer where her whip was kept – a boner formed, but I pretended to be asleep. She rolled over and took the sheet off me – my boner got bigger. She pulled down my silk boxers – I was about to explode. She let the whip fall on my bare butt several times - I was in horny ecstacy. Before I could come, she told me to get to work.

I was busy for the remainder of the day, but being that busy, I got tired. As my wife was out shopping, I took a nap, expecting to be up by the time she arrived. But she snuck in and I was awoken to a whip on my but. It was a hard whip which stung for a while. I could not sit down without feeling it – she laughed about that and told me I got what I deserved. Most of the time the spanking has a little sexual undertone to it, that time it was just for punishment.

That night after making her come, I was spanked with my whip until I came, for appreciation of all my hard work.

Massages

One of the things a submissive must become good at is giving a massage. On the weekends when I am under her control, I have to give my wife massages several times during the day and night.

On the couch while she is watching her show, her feet get massaged. At night after I satisfy her I massage her back. I wake her up from her afternoon nap with a gentle massage.

I have massage and body lotions located throughout the house. Whenever she ask or I see her bending over I will grab a lotion. The trick with lotion guys is to warm them up on your hands first…do not squirt them on her back, Put it on your hands massage them together then massage her.

One of the most intoxicating massages is when she is playing her computer game (spider solitaire). I will come behind her, spread the lotion (Currently "Moonlight Path") on my hands and start to massage her back. Since she is sitting down and likes the massage on the lower part of her back, I have to get on my knees to massage her which add to the feeling of being submissive. After about 5 minutes my knees start to hurt which adds to the excitement. She will usually make me massage her till she wins which sometimes takes 30 minutes of exstacy.

I also enjoy the bath massages. While she takes a bath, I take a warm washcloth and rub her back as she leans forward. Then she leans back and I massage the front of her arms and to her naked breast.

Things I have learned:
- Use body lotion.
- She does not like warm massage stones (sounds like a good idea, but just feels like hot rocks)
-Warm the body lotion before using.
-Use circular pressure, do not knead it like dough.

I think any good submissive should learn how to give a good massage…it’s a part of your job.

Lists – Honey-Dos that get Done..

My wife is not big on giving me orders through the weekend. But there are things she wants done, so she keeps a list going. We keep it electronically and she updates it whenever she thinks of something new.

I scratch the things off my list. With the understanding that if I do not finish the list, she may not let me come and I will be hers for a while longer.

It is also an indication if I want to be hers for the entire weekend or just Saturday. If I want to end the game Saturday night, I get everything on the list done. Almost ever time I have completed my list on Saturday she lets me come that night. (We have an understanding that if I come that night, I will not be hers the next day) .

Regardless of whether I have completed my list or not, every Saturday night she has me make her come. If I have not completed my list, she does not tell me if I will be allowed to come until after she has come and she is teasing me, playing with my cock or having me play with it while she pinches my nipples. If I have not completed my list she will stop and say it is time for bed, and I fall asleep in horny exstacy.

Most Saturdays I complete all but one item on the list. This gives her the freedom to keep me or let me have a release.

Here is the most recent list, you will notice there are weekly items which stay on the list and each week she adds new items.
This Week
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Accompany Wife To The Mall
Film Kids
Install Lock on Front Door
Clean Carpets
Replace light bulbs in Bathroom
Clean downstairs closet
Mail gift to Wife’s sister
Weekly
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Wash Clothes
Wash Sheets
Vacumn
Clean Wifes's Car Out
Cook Snacks - Deviled Eggs

Silk Boxers

I started our marriage as a tighty-whitey guy.
My wife likes me in boxers.
We have compromised as I wear boxer-briefs most of the time.

On the weekends when my wife is in charge, it is all about the silk boxers. She likes the way they feel. I do not like the way they feel. But, I like the way it is a continuos reminder of my place in the relationship. That everything I do is at her whim. Ever time I bend down to pick up something on the floor or lean over while vacuuming I feel the silk slide against my butt and am instantly reminded and instantly horney.

Her “Friends”

About a month into the game, my wife mentioned, once, she missed having something inside her. Being the submissive husband I was I went to an adult novelty store and purchased a pink vibrator for her.

I used it that weekend on her, to her surprise on Saturday night. After we were done she wondered aloud whether she would be able to walk. She enjoyed it immensely.

Later I bought a "Rabbit" with an outside control that allows it to rotate around and vibrate at the same time. I enjoy holding the controller, having it on high, till she is just about to come, then slowing it down. We call it my remote control game. I enjoy the look on her face as she gets close and then relaxes. But when she is ready, I feel her hand press against the back of my head as she wants my mouth on her clit. It takes about 30 seconds of me eating her out to satisfy her.



I also enjoy inserting and removing the dildo for a long time. She told me once that one of the best parts of sex, is that feeling when the penis enters her. If it my penis, I can insert it about an inch and remove it a dozen times or so before I am driven crazy and insert it full length into her. With her "Friend", I can insert it for a hundred time for an hour straight. Until she finally reaches for my head and forces my tounge on her clit for the thirty seconds needed till orgasm, during which her friend goes deep inside her.

After she is done, I can leave her friend in for a while and it will not grow limp. It will not need to keep stroking to come like me penis.

I enjoy satisfying my wife and use her vibrators to help with that task. I do not use them ever weekends, but it does spice up our life and make her even more motivated to have me be submissive to her wishes.

Shower at night, or two days…

The next weekend started like the first. I cooked and cleaned on Friday with anticipation. My wife took my cue that I was in a submissive mood and pinched my ass and nipples to keep me horny. That Friday night she told me it was my job to get all the feedings for the night. Which I did, as I had done the weekend before.
The next day my wife woke up well rested to breakfast in bed. She was getting spoiled and I was loving it. She lounged around the day, more comfortable in her role. She would come and hug me, massage my cock until it was hard and then leave me in exstacy.
We had quickly fallen into a pattern of me doing things without being asked. I am reminded of a bumper sticker that said "I wish my man would stop asking me what I wanted done, and just do it". She had no trouble keeping me horny, but did not really want to give me orders. So I took over doing what needed to be done.

After an evening enjoying meal I cooked and she enjoying a movie while I washed clothes, my wife said she was in the mood for sex and a bath. I had been kept on edge all day and was ready for release. Then she went into the bedroom to get ready, but I heard the bath going. She never took a bath before sex, only after. The only reason she would take a bath before if I was to satisfy her, and get no satisfaction myself. So it dawned on me that I would not get to come tonight, but she wanted to be satisfied. I went into the bathroom and washed her back with a warm wash clothe. Getting hornier all the time, washing her naked body, getting even hornier knowing this batch meant I would not get to come tonight.

And so it was. She got out and we went to bed and I used my mouth to satisfy her. She massaged my hard cock for a little bit then told me to go brush my teeth and come to bed for the night. I slipped in beside her and on her command massaged her back till she drifted off to sleep. I was soo horny that night.

The next day (Sunday) went as expected with me as horny as I was, doing her bidding the entire time. That night after making her come, she finally allowed me to come inside her.
That had pushed it from being her slave for about a day, to over two days (including Friday).

Some weekends we played for the entire weekend, sometimes just for Saturday. On Saturday night’s I am high with anticipation, not knowing if she will keep it going for the rest of the weekend or let me come. I am happy either way, I would enjoy coming and I would enjoy staying her slave for the rest of the day.

My Enjoyment

When I am her submissive husband for the day/weekend, I enjoy the hell out of myself. I had fantasized about it for years and now it finally came true. It really has two parts, the denial/teasing and the satisfaction of work.
When I daydreamed about this in the past I only focused on being kept horny. I love her teasing me. I love being horny and have her rap her arms around me and massage my ass pulling my hard cock to her. I love brushing her breast against me. The game gives so many changes for her to make me horny. Since I have not come in a while, I enjoy them all.

I never expected how good keeping busy and satisfying my wife would feel. There is a certain amount of pleasure in job well done. I work in an office and seldom see tangible results from my work. But a cleaned kitchen and vacuumed house makes me feel like I accomplished something (not to mention the joy I receive as my wife massaging my cock, not to let me come).

In addition there is pleasure in satisfying my wife. A good meal, a relaxing massage, clean sheets, or a oral satisfaction – They all give me great pride. Any guy who enjoys satisfying his women, just for the sake of satisfying her should understand this.

All in all, I do not know why I enjoy being this submissive husband so much. When it over and I come, I think why do I let myself get put into these situations (Which is probably what you, the reader are thinking). But when it is happening I am in ecstasy.

Weekdays and frequency.

Since that first weekend, me being submissive to her dominance have become a regular part of our sex life. I am happy to say.

It only occurs on the weekends. The weekdays are pretty normal. She may be reluctant for sex around Wednesday or Thursday "If I satisfy you now, you will not be in the mood this weekend". But it is never the same Submissive/Dominance routine we go through some weekends.

We have been playing the game (that is one of our names for it) for over 2.5 years on some weekends. We have gone through months, where ever weekend we played. We have gone a month at a time when we do not play. We only play on weekends when we do not have a lot going on. (For example, it is hard for me to do her bidding if she is off with her sister for most of the weekend). So I guess in the past 2.5 years we have played about 50 weekends, or just under 50%.

When it started, I always had to initiate or volunteer for it. But as the years have past, my wife has become more and more vocal about wanting it and enjoying it. She has come to enjoy her relaxing weekends, she enjoys the house staying clean, and she enjoys the attention. I felt guilt at the beginning, she never shares a hidden fantasy with me, but when I shared mine (being submissive) she gave it a try. But since she ask for it so often, I have come to believe she enjoys it as well…

How it started

I have always had submissive tenancies as long as I can remember. I tried to get my wife to fulfill them with little success.

It started with an innocent comment taken out of context. A couple of months after our last child was born, with sleep deprivation on high for both us, on a Friday night, I asked my wife whose turn it was to get up with our kid at night. She said, in what I considered a domineering tone, that I was to get hit him for the whole night.

So that night I took all the feedings and let my wife sleep in late the next day, Saturday. I had thought she was commanding me to, fulfilling what she knew was my submissive fantasy. She asked me why I let her sleep through the night, I explained what I thought she meant and her curiosity in my fantasy blossomed.

If you have ever had a kid who woke up at 2:00 am and it was your turn to get them, you know you would do almost anything to have you spouse take your turn. No matter how much you love your spouse, you just want to sleep. So it was with my wife. She always knew I wanted to be her slave, if she just kept me motivated, by keeping me horny and not making me cum. But she never had any incentive. Nothing like sleep deprivation to bring out all the incentive you need.

So the game began. I was already horny from the night of thinking she was playing the game. She made me horny by pinching my nipples for a few minutes. She grabbed my hard cock as asked me what we were having for breakfast.

I left for the kitchen and breakfast was not far behind. Eggs and Bacon on flour tortillas with a little salsa on the side. I brought it to her as she laid in bed. She massaged my ass till my cock throbbed. She reach around gave it a pull and told me to start washing clothes.
The day went great. She kept pinching and prodding me, keeping me on edge - I kept up with the housework. I cooked and cleaned up afterwards -She ate and relaxed. She took naps-I took care of the kids. I washed clothes-She watched TV. I was in submissive heaven every order was accompanied by a pinch on the butt, a massage of the penis or nibble on the nipples.

That night she watched one of her XXX-Rated video while I put the kids to bed. When I got to bed, I she was ready to be pleased. After a little kissing, I felt the hand on the back of my head, knowing she wanted me to eat her out. So I slowly went down on her and licked her clit. I slowly eased my fingers in and massaged up in a come-hither motion, which drives her wild. After a few minutes, she was done.

She pulled me on top of her and I drove my cock into her waiting pussy. After a few minutes I was ready to come. I asked her if I could come, she told me I had been a good boy and could come. I came quickly and rolled off of her. I held her for a while and we drifted off to sleep without even talking about the day.

The wonderful day as I thought back upon it. I was her willing slave and she the reluctant but cooperating master. She seemed to have enjoyed herself and as all my questions where answered that she enjoyed the day. But at the time I was not sure if it would ever happen again…