How to punish this submissive?

How do you punish a submissive(or masochist)? I expect it is different for each one of us.

My punishments, may be another submissives fantasy. Their fantasy, may be my punishment.

I enjoy a good spank, especially when I have been bad, it motivates me. Tying me up is an all time fantasy. Generally pain just gets me hornier.

We have our unspoken rules that no-one else should know about the game, so public humiliation is out.

There are two punishments that my wife can bestow on me when I have been bad or failed her….

1) Her satify herself – I love making my wife come. It is what I enjoy most about being her submissive. If I am bad, she can satisfy herself either making me lay calmly beside her or leave the room.

2) Make me satisfy myself out of her presence – I enjoy coming with her, whether sex, coming between her breast, or even her teasing my nipples while I make myself come. If I am bad, I am told to go to the bathroom and do not come back until I am done. I am heartbroken..

I love my wife and am usually a good slave and she has seldom had to resort to these. Afterwards, the next weekend I am much better.

I love my wife.