A little spank, makes you think you are the luckiest man in the world
There are several popular TV shows that referes men's desire to be spanked/dominated and were afraid to tell there wife/lover. "Desperate Housewifes", "Sex in the City", and several HBO specials all mentioned it. On the internet you find men who want to be spanked, but there wifes will not comply - either they are too scared to ask or there wifes refuse.
But I am in a relationship in which my wife spanks me regurlarly. I am so lucky.
When I started this blog, my wife rarely spanked me (twice a year), but it has come a more frequent occurance twice in the last two weeks.
I think spanking is my wifes preferred way to may me come now (when she is too tire for sex, but thinks I deserve it). It takes the least amount of effort for her, less messy than a hand job, less work than getting on top of me and wrapping her breast around my manhood, and less sweaty than me groping over her while I come.
She has gotten so into it she spanks me quite hard. When she started spanking me, she would be very gentle and I would have to name things that I had done bad to get her to spank harder. Now she spanks hard without my prodding and will bring up things I did wrong herself for particularly hard whips. I always think of things to say - but think better of it - for example "I am sorry I stared so long at our neighbor Tammy yesterday" <- That particular one would have probably gotten me me worse pain ever..
My butt stays sore for quite a while afterwards. The next day at work I am noticably sore. A couple of days later I can still feel a slight pain, but I can go a hour without noticing it..
Back to my original point, do other submissive husband wonder if they are the luckiest man in the world to find someone that can satisfy their desires...
I love my wife.