Talking

Guys usually do not like to talk. Most of the time, I am no exception. I will talk about sports, the kids, the weather – but relationships and feelings are not talked about.

On weekends when my wife is in charge, she enjoys talking. She will ask me what I think about our relationship in general. Where do I want to be in 5 years. All the questions that usually invoke a simple, shrug and I do not know.

I will talk to her while I massage her back as she plays computer games. Or we lay in bed talking.

She recently told me that it is one of the things she enjoys about my fantasy weekends. The game is not all about getting what I want, this is something she wants and I am glad to oblidge.

I love my wife.

Drumroll please

The drumroll , the suspense, the top of the rollercoaster, that is the best.

When I come on Friday I do not know whether my wife to be in control for the weekend. There is suspense in the air.

She will make a comment "You can cook tonight", that I am not sure if it is an innocent request or the first command on the weekend. She will pinch my butt, and I am not sure if it is just innocent flirting or getting me horney to express her control.
Drumroll….

I think she is feeling me out to see if I am willing as well. If I am not in the mood, I will refuse her command, or pinch her butt back. If I accept her commands, she knows I am willing (although she knows I almost always am).
Drumroll….

As the day progresses, her commands become more blatant and her teasing more dominant. She will say you clean up, while I go watch TV. As I bend over to pick something up she will come behind me and pounce me. She will squeeze my nipples for 15 seconds straight.
Drumroll….

In the end she will hit the final drum clang. She will tell me she is looking forward to being pleased tonight and if I am good, I can come tommorrow. Or she will tell me that I am being a good little slave boy.
Bang…

I love my wife

Forbidden items

Our relationship on the weekends where my wife is in control is like a fantasy come true. I enjoy pleasing her and her being control.

But there are things I fantasize about that wife does not want to give.

I would love to be tied up with my hands above my head while she teases me. I would love for her to have that control. But she is unconfortable with me being tied up. It totally ruins the mood for her.

I am so happy I am getting some of what I want (her in control) I do not complain. I read of men who want their wife to take full control and will settle for nothing less. So they get nothing. I take the dominance she is willing to give, that does not make her unconfortable – I think that is a truly good submissive…

I love my wife.

Spilling over into the weekdays…

Although I am only he slave on some weekends, the things I have learned over the past couple of years on the occasional weekend I have put to use during the week to make her happier.

I have become good at giving her massages. Using body oil on her back to help her feel good. Or when we are watching TV at night, she will plop her feet on my lap and ask for a massage.

On the weekends when she is the boss, I am a full time chef. I have taken some of the recipes she likes and cook them on the weeknights as well. In addition, during the week I will try our new recipes, the ones she likes will make it into a future weekend menu.

Before we started the game, I rarely did laundry. Not that I was too macho, it was always her job and I had never learned the nuances of clothe cleaning (not that it is too difficult). On those weekends, I have to wash all the clothes, so I learned how. So now I pitch in on the weekends.

I do not mind helping keeping the house clean during the week now. It shows that I appreciate her playing the game with me on the weekend. And if the house is cleaner by Friday there is less work for me to do on the weekend so I can spend more time pleasing her.

I love my wife.

Videos

I do not know why but my wife likes XXX videos. I really do not like them, but she can not get enough of them.

On weekends which I know she is expecting to be the boss, I will hit the video store to get her a new video.

She enjoys these weekends. Normally after she puts in a video I am her side after 10 minutes ready to go so she does not get to watch much. When I am her slave, she gets to watch almost the whole movie while I am cleaning the house. And when I do come to bed with her in charge, I always focus on satisfying her – either with her "Friend" or my tounge and her view of the video is unobstructed. (During the week when we have sex and I am on top she can not see her video.

Her being the boss also affects on video collection. There are no lesbian or mutliple-girls on one guy videos. They all have to be mostly straight sex with multiple men (more dick) for the girls because that is what she enjoys. Although almost ever video has lesbian scenes we just fast forward through them, she does not want me to get horny looking at another women.

Feedback, asking what I did right.

After a day of my wife being the boss, I always ask her what she enjoys most about it. I will list off the things and she will tell me how much she enjoys it.
She enjoys being pampered
She enjoys the clean kitchen
She enjoys her naps.
She enjoys me satisfying her without having to satisfy me immediately
She enjoys me using her "Friends" on her.
She enjoys her car being cleaned.
She enjoys her snacks.

I have used this to fine tune what I work on when she is the boss. I thought she would enjoy not having to deal with our youngest kid, but she said she enjoyed bonding with him, so let her hold him sometime. I thought she would enjoy the clothes being cleaned, but she said they get so backed up again afterward that it did not really matter that much.

So every week after we are done, I find out what she enjoyed most. I can use this to do better the next time…

I love my wife.

Meals, Snacks, and Drinks

On the weekends in which my wife is the boss, I become quite the chef. I have learned how to cook new low-fat items and keep her happy with her favorite snacks.

I sometime shop on Friday nights after I have satisfied her and she is asleep. I am usually horny to sleep so I go shopping with the food for the weekend in mind.

The morning I prepare her eggs, tortilla, and salsa with sides of grapes, orange juice and bottled water. Brought to her on a serving tray while she is showering or playing computer.

Lunch is a smaller snack of pasta or sometimes eat out for.

Afternoon is when I shine. I cook her deviled eggs or armadillo eggs, shrimp salsa. I try to have a snack ready for her when she wakes from her afternoon nap. It makes her especially happy to get up to a good snack – I can always count on extra teasing afterwards.

At nights I cook one of her favorites from the weight watchers cookbook. On the weekdays if I cook, she will clean. But when we are playing the game- of course I get to do both.
At night I will get her strawberries sliced into Yogurt. I will keep her glass full with drinks such as margaritas or mud slides.

I like making my wife happy and she is very happy when she is well fed with food she enjoys. When I cook for her she is very appreciative – always pinching my nipples or massaging my but to keep my horny.

I love my wife.

Friendly public kidding

My wife does not really want to publicly humiliate me(yet). We keep the game between just the two of us most of the time.

But on the weekends when she is the boss, there is friendly kidding which goes on when others are around.

When our neighbors call, she will list off all the things that I have done and she has done. She will say "He has washed the clothes, cleaned the kitchen, vacumned the house, and washed my car. I have been relaxing and taking a nap all afternoon. " after a little pause for them to reply she will say "Yes it is nice".

When she comes back from shopping with her mother, she will ask "So did you keep busy and clean the house like you were supposed to?" then "Good boy".
When her sister calls she will list off my chores and tell her sister where she had shopped.

She always does it within my earshot, not even trying to hide the fact that it might be humiliating to have other know of our arrangement. But the humiliation is kinda stimulating, and just makes me want to submit to her all the more.

If my friend had said his wife did all those things, while allowing him to sleep of golf. I would be jealous of my friend. I wonder if the women that talk to my wife are jealous of her. I wonder if she is somehow bragging to them about what a good relationship she has, that she gets to rest while the work gets done. I wonder if this makes her happy, I hope it does. On these weekends I love making my wife happy.

I love my wife.

Not looking at other women

Men look at other women. It is in our nature. Most of the time my wife will notice me ogling, but let it pass.

But on weekends when she is the boss, this is not allowed. If she catches me, she will be upset and squeeze my nipples and tell me I know better than that.

After about 6 months of playing the game every other weekend, she instituted this rule while I leered at a lady jogging in the neighborhood wearing short-shorts. She learned that if I only looked at her, I became much more submissive to her as, it increase my desire. She has only caught me a couple of other times since then.

I love my wife.